Starting Somewhere


A very dear friend of mine frequently said, “Don’t despise small beginnings.”

It’s taken me the best part of fifteen years to appreciate her advice, and it’s a quote I consider often as I go through my life on the writing journey.

It’s very easy to look at others in the world who are enjoying some level of success and be a little envious. It might be a nice car, a home or homes, vacations, glamour or a lot of money. Of course, those things can be attractive. These things are not really an end in themselves. I don’t write to get things I don’t have. I don’t write to become anything I’m not. They can be motivational to some starting out. What motivates you? What drives your writing or creativity?

I like writing. In fact, I’ve always liked writing. If I’d had slightly more attentive people in my life when I was younger, I might be farther ahead in my writing career. Lots of writers have been more successful at a much younger age than myself some had parents who were writers, or their talents were recognized earlier, or they knew what to do with that gift regardless. It would be very easy to compare myself to those people and after a few hours, I’d be feeling pretty bummed out that I am not where they are.

nikolay-maslov-43528-unsplashBut, I didn’t start when they did, or do what it took early on. And what I have chosen to focus on instead is that I finally recognized my passion (thank you Vera Hassell and Neil Wein) and because of that, I may not have accomplished as much as some, but I’m not where I used to be either. I move forward, sometimes incrementally, and at other times in great leaps. Those writers who are succeeding often share what they did to reach that level. Some of them are mentors to me. And it always comes down to this: They did the work.

I didn’t start taking my writing seriously until eight years ago. Up until then, I never considered writing for publication, but when I did, there was a shift in my thinking. I looked for opportunities to stretch myself.

So much of writing is about committing. It’s about showing up to the page day after day and writing when you think “you got nothin’”. I’ll step on more than a few toes when I say that you can train your muse to show up at a regular time. If you show up every day to the page at the same time, get your coffee or tea, and sit at the computer or your desk with your pen and paper, you will write. Don’t get up until you write. You can start a blog, write a short story, a poem, or your screenplay or a novelette. You can begin with one page, a word.

Start somewhere. Start now.

3 Comments Add yours

  1. JEOcean says:

    You are so right, but how many of us take the challenge to heart?


  2. Karyl says:

    Bravo. There is a lot to be said – and books have been written to say it – about ‘showing up’. Showing up to write, showing up in your life. Some call it ‘being present’. Life can’t be lived if you don’t show up for it.


    1. JEOcean says:

      So true. Thanks for your comment, Karyl. When did so many people start living on autopilot? Every once in a while, someone will say to me, “must be nice to be a writer” like it followed me home after tiring of a former owner. If you want what I have, you have to do what I did, said another well-known speaker, Joyce Meyer (or a version of that.) Every action requires a sacrifice. You are looking at years of no television when you see at my book list.


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